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Strawberry - word of the day
"In the kink community, a strawberry is someone who has few kinks or fetishes and my not consider themselves to be very kinky but also...
3 days ago
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Kink Aware Professional (KAP)- word of the day
"The Kink and Polyamory Aware Professionals Directory (KAP) is a service offered by NCSF dedicated to providing the community with a...
Apr 1
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Bootblack - word of the day
"Bootblacking is the practice of caring for boots, shoes, and other leather apparel." - The Bootblack Wiki We couldn't say it much better...
Mar 25
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Kinkster - word of the day
"A person who participates in unconventional sexual practices, especially BDSM" - Dictionary.com This is the term used by a lot of our...
Mar 18
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Squick - word of the day
"A source of individual psychological discomfort; something that repels one." - Wiktionary This is a common slang word used within the...
Mar 11
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Fetish - word of the day
"A sexual fixation on an activity or object" - The Dictionary of Scene-Friendly Terms Not a very good explanation of what it means but a...
Mar 4
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Why we're one of the few fetish\BDSM party planners
We know how difficult is it to host a kinky party ( you can read about our recommendations here ) but there's also a big reason why we're...
Aug 14, 2024
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Fetish and BDSM in NC
Fetish After Dark is, at our core, an event planning and performance group, and we love BDSM events. They can be difficult to find,...
Jul 9, 2024
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BDSM: a REAL short overview
We're becoming a regularly respected reference site, who knew? BDSM stands for "Bondage Domination Sadomasochism" OR "Bondage Discipline...
May 30, 2024
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How to Host a kinky party
So, you want to host a kinky party, but you don't know where to start? Our first suggestion would be to contact Fetish After Dark and...
Mar 13, 2024
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Kink Spotlight: Restraints
Private dedicated rooms or spaces are a privilege that most can't afford or simply can't manage with space and household obligations. ...
Feb 11, 2024
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Kink Spotlight: Sensation Play
Arguably the most focused and subtle of all of the kinks, sensation play is kind of poorly named as one could argue that ALL kinks...
Jan 9, 2024
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Fetish Outfits in the Triad
Last year we dropped a post about how to get reasonably priced fetishwear (You can read it here) Recently a local business pointed out...
Aug 25, 2023
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Kink and Disability for Disability Pride Month
We have a Fetish After Dark staff member who is a specialist in sex & disability. Since July is Disability Pride Month, we thought we'd...
Jul 7, 2023
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PRIDE is part of BDSM & BDSM is part of PRIDE
We teach a class on the history of BDSM (you get to read a dirty Sumerian hymn to Inana from around 3,100 BCE), and a good part of that...
Jun 23, 2023
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Ethical Kink
Fetish After Dark works hard to be a positive example of ethical kink and BDSM for both our community and the general public. As a...
Jun 13, 2023
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April and May, we're getting busy!
LOTS of events are coming up and you can find Fetish After Dark at them all! April 29th, you can find our tent and spanking booth at...
Apr 20, 2023
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Why we support Triad Health Project
We've gotten asked why we, a group of event planners and fetish performers, do so much work to support a local charity. Triad Health...
Mar 11, 2023
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Why it's so difficult to run events - And why we could use your help.
We were spoiled, and it's a problem. Fetish After Dark was started at a dive-bar in West Greensboro owned by two brothers who were...
Feb 2, 2023
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We did a sexy thing, and we're coming back again in April!
The show this year absolutely kicked ass! Not just us, but every performer pulled out an amazing performance. Even the audience was...
Nov 9, 2022
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